I’ve been going to Climax for quite a while now. Loads of girls there readily available for the casual monger like myself.
One night, I happened upon a girl ‘Rim’ who was chatty and fun. Said she’d not been in the business for too long – which none of them have. I played dumb and pretended not to be too clued up on the P4P scene.
I gave her a tip for spending time with me but didn’t take her back to my hotel. Didn’t seem to be a problem.
A week or so passed and I found myself at Climax with some pals and straight away she came over. I was a little drunk and flirted. One thing lead to another and we both went back to my hotel. The deed was done.
Paid off in the morning I told her I’d see her around sometime. It wasn’t anything special and to be honest, I didn’t see any reason for a return visit with her.
Over the next few weeks I went back to Climax with my pals. Each night she was there with her pals and we all drank at the same table. Each time she’d ask to go with me and each time I declined but gave her a good tip. I explained that I had to be in work early, so didn’t really want to be up all night boom-booming her.
Each time, she kept saying I didn’t like her. Each time I told her I did – just not enough to risk turning up to work late.
After a few weeks, there we all were, drinking from my bottle, when I noticed that Rim was acting odd. Just standing there and not really interacting, joking and laughing like all previous other times. Instead she was moody, quiet and not much fun. She had actually come to the conclusion that she was no longer there to dance, flirt and could just stand there and drink my bottle.
Fine by me, but I was not wanting to be all serious. I was wanting to hangout and have some fun.
At this time, I had made eye contact with a girl at a nearby table. She looked hot. She was smiling and dancing around. I liked a little of that.
Rim had seen this and got in a strop. Saying that I was treating her like a prostitute!! Which I thought she was?
When I left, Rim followed me along soi 11 and said she wanted to come back to my place and ‘talk’. I told her I was going to sleep. She insisted that she just wanted to talk.
Talk about what? Again, she complained to me saying I was treating her like a prostitute and was disrespecting her by looking at other girls. I had to remind her that each night she is with different guys who pay her for sex. I was not her boyfriend and just because I was nice to her, doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy myself. I also explained the reason I caught the attention of another girl was because she was having fun where as Rim wasn’t.
It was then I got ahold of myself and told her that next time I am in Climax, it would be better if she never comes over again. IF I want her services, I’ll pay for it like every other guy.
I’ve been back a few times but not seen her. A few of her friends jokingly say I am her boy
friend and she has sent me a few messages thanking me for breaking her heart and giving her a sad feeling inside.
I don’t for one minute think there were any feelings involved other than feeling the money between her fingers each time we met.
What is it with these girls? They attract you by being a little special. Flirtatious, sexy, fun… and then when you’re with them it all stops and the wonder why you end up looking elsewhere.
Why would I want that as a girlfriend? Do they not think that maybe we’re not looking for a girlfriend when we enter into an agreement of sex for money?
To stop these girls acting like moody girlfriends, we have option other than to treat them like the prostitutes they are – which then makes them angry.
From now on, I will stop being nice and never go with the same girl more than once.